Monday 27 February 2012

Should You Die For Love?

This is a question that is frequently asked by the majority. Many people will say no but you can be rest assured that some will definitely say yes.If I am to rephrase the question,it will be"Who can you die for?" Some will say they can die for their lovers, family, best friends.Let us take these views one after the other:
Lovers: Why on earth should you die for a lover? In case you haven't heard, if you as a woman/lady die because of a man or all in the name of love, many men will pass by your grave side and the guy will even eventually hook up with another lady sef. This also applies to men.However, it will be adviseable for you to stay alive and then share this precious love you have with your partner than die and let another person take your place.The best that can happen is that your memory will be kept and cherised.
Best Friends; The truth is that some best friends happen to be closer to us than even our siblings and so we feel like we are of the same blood.I still feel you should stay alive for your friend than allow just your memory get all the reverence.
Family : Initially, i used to feel any life sacrificed for a family member is worth it until I discovered from my Bible that JESUS has died for everyone and has even risen. This simply means that no one needs to die for anybody anymore.If you are in so much pain, trial, sorrow, agony. confusion, distress, call on God and you can be certain that he will answer you.His love is sufficient for us and so we can stay alive and appreciate this great gift.
In the case of lovers, its jealousy, possessiveness, desperacy,  inferiority complex many unsafe habits that makes people believe that they cant do without a person and so they would rather die than loose such person. Believe in yourself and in the love of God that surpasses all other kind of love. You will find yourself enjoying life at its fullest with no worries.
                                                                                                               XOXO
                                                                                                              JAYMAIMAH

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