Majority of humans have different definitions about love and the significance on vals day. Most people believe this day to be meant for lovers while some believe it to be a day shared with your loved ones.People's motive for the day also determines/ influences their view and ideology as regards this notorious day. If I am asked to give a definition to Vals day, i will simply say it is a day to show love (GENUINE AFFECTION)to everyone no matter who the person is. Everyday should be about us caring for each other and that will still not jeopardise the significance of the day.
For couples, everyday should be your vals day. If you happen to look forward to just the 14th of every February to be loved and showered with gifts or attention, then you need to have a re check on why you are in that relationship. If you happen to bemarried, make it your duty henceforth to make every day a Vals day for your partner and let He/She see reasons to why it should be so.Gradually, you will start to experience Love in a TRUE dimension. Its sad to know that a lot of misconducts go on all in the name of celebrating love on Vals day. God himself shows us love and even celebrated it for us. we can see this in John 3:16
For God so loVed the world
that he gAve his
onLy begotten son
that whosoEver
believes iN him
shall noT
perIshbut
have everlastiNg
lifE.
I will on another edition talk about love but lets focus on what is best advised to be done on this day. Naturally, we humans tend to sub consciously smile when we see another happy, also when we see a person crying or sad, it affects us.We can spend the day visiting the needy, giving them gifts or spending some time with them, hereby making them feel happy and not alone in this world.The more we bless people, we are also being blessed in return.Its not all about the money, its about what we have to offer to help make another person better. I am not against couples spending time with each other on this day, i believe that is done most of the time. You might be too busy on a normal day to see these less privileged ones, why dont we you both spend the day with these people then maybe spend your private time later over dinner. Our loved ones also shouldn't be left out, show them some love. Ordinary calls and text messages is sufficient enough to show how much care and you remember them.
I can vouch that some people who are not even married will get pregnant,wrongfully dis-flowered , heart broken duped,broke and devastated due to their wrong notion of this day. Some acts of the day will even lead to another person getting an abortion or going in sane. All these silly and unfortunate occurrences can be avoided if one sets his / her mind correctly from the inception. We deserve more than we dish out to ourselves and we can make this day a wonderful one for another if we do it right.
XOXO
JAYMAIMAH
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